Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Ok guys .. i will keep it short as i know long questions are a turn off ... I am a 14 year old boy from UK ... since i was 9 i started getting body hair everywhere like everyone but but in pas few years it is to a Extreme .. i mean it is just effecting my social life .. i have been doing body building very slowly for 3 years and i have a great body but i am even scared to 'show off' !!! Yes because it is disgusting ..

I have to skip every time my friends go to swimming ... Of course i cannot even think of shaving anything as my parents thing ... your a man if you have hair ... yeah right ..

So yes i see there is no other way .. and i am not sure what i am asking but i hope you guys can point me to somewhere .. It highly effected my life .. all the basketball games i used to go to .. swimming .. and etc ..

I appreciate it ..

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Look into laser removal. It is a bit expensive and hurts a bit, but after a few procedures, it can permanently remove hair, destroying hair at the follicle so that it does not grow back. It works best when you have large contrast between skin color and hair color (i.e. light skin and dark hair color), having to do with the laser's ability to target the hair.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Body hair is natural. You don't say what you consider to be "extreme".

If you are uncomfortable with your appearance, but are reluctant to shave because your parents disapprove, talk to them about how your body hair is affecting your self-esteem. No parent wants thier child to suffer emotionally.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

If the hair bothering your social life then shave it, if other kids your age don't have some body hair shave yours so you seem like the same stage as they are. don't worry about it.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Welcome to the club.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

do you wish to attract a man or woman ?

an adult will not care about what you look like in private.

an immature whiner will care and be a bad mate for you.

DO Not SHAVE it will look worse.

the only effective would be total body waxing, painful and expensive.

laser works best but many many thousands of dollars, or euros.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Well if u want to start shaving thats your decision. Its your body and your life. If u think u will have a better social life, then just start shaving. No one should be able to tell u what to do with your body. Just tell your parents that I have too much hair on my body and it is really affecting my social life. And be confident when you talk to them! Good Luck!

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

well hair is very masculine and u should not be embarassed by it! try to nair it or do lazor hair removal...nair is a better option, but you will have to do it quite often.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

It is affecting your social life because you are young and have not accepted it yourself and accept yourself for who you are. I know at your age it is very difficult not to be self concience but you should go on with life like you did before or you will regret it when you are older.

Not all woman like men with a lot of hair but there are also a lot of woman who are looking for a "teddy bear".

So try to be you and ignore the comments. The kids that are really mean where not meant to be your friend in the beginning then anyhow. The ones that stay by your side at your true friends.

Show it off and have a blast.

Good luck.

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

First of all the problem is not your body hair it is how you percieve it. This is common for us not to likke somethign abotu our self. IN fact what do you care what youlook like toothers. You didinot put the body hair ther. It grew. You are not responsible for it?

In fact ther eis goign to be som eone who is goign tolove it. Some girl in years is gogin tolike you a lot for what ever reason becaue of how it is.

you re oly 14. How much bodyhair do you have., Send us a picture.

SOme guys are really hairy others are not. ONe is not better than the other. You are not fully grown yet. It may look odd now but whenyou are fully grown it will seem fine.

This custom of not liking things abotuthe way we look is common but it is wrong.

We watnto talk wht you and be a friend tyo you and try to convince you that you are fine.

If you email us we will.

Ask God to give you grace to be bale to accept this and befine with it.

DO you have a clear understanding of yourt sexual identity and preferences? talk with us if you need som eguidance or encouragement. O.K?

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Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

thas is a problema, if I know one!

Body Hair ... Effecting my Social Life ...?

Everyone gets body hair its never anything to be ashamed of in my school its a good thing to have lots of hair.